Mother who felt lonely finds heartwarming surprises left by her son who is hundreds of miles away in college


The feeling of grief and loneliness that occur when parents are forced to face the fact that their children are no longer part of the household or leave the home for the first time is extremely common where parents are concerned.

It is not a clinical condition and parents may find themselves feeling this way when their children decide to leave the home in search for a life of their own or to attend college or university. It is a normal and healthy event when a child breaks away from the family unit in order to secure their own individual lives.

It is still heart breaking for parents to know that their child has grown up enough to face the world on their own

Cheryl Gottlieb Boxer of Rochester, New York who is a writer and had recently gone through this exact phenomenon. She had to come to terms with the fact that her son had to leave the home to attend college. What was interesting was the way in which he had made his presence linger in the household without him being physically present. 

Cheryl Gottlieb Boxer went through the difficult task of letting her son go and move out to attend college

Cheryl shared her experience on her Facebook page and recalled the story as follows. She had dropped her son off at the train station after her son’s winter break so that he could return to college. She then drove home and found something amiss. It was quiet, so much so that she found the silence deafening. She was used to hearing her son play music on his guitar or hearing the constant sound of video games. Her son also used to have his friends over often and there was boisterous laughter and chatter coming from his room. She heard none of that as she stepped into the empty house.

It’s amazing to see the contrast from when they were children to when they have grown up. Parents would do anything to have some peace and quiet when their children were still babies but after they have grown up and moved out, parents would not be able to stand the silence.

Her son had anticipated this exact situation and found a way to make his presence felt even though he was miles away

Cheryl explained as follows:

And then I started finding notes. Everywhere. He left me notes in all the places he knows I’ll find them. “Have a nice bath” on the edge of the bath tub. “You look beautiful” on the mirror of my medicine cabinet. “I love you” inside my coffee maker.

Her son left a note saying “I love you” on the inside of her coffee maker

Cheryl said “Finding these notes has made me so happy. And I keep finding more. Each note I find I’m afraid is the last, but then I find another.”

She then called him to inquire about the notes. He said that he did it because he did not want her to forget him. She answered sarcastically, “As if that’s possible.”

She then went on to say:

“I assume by now he has found the note I left inside the dinner I packed for him. “Be careful and I love you.” Because I don’t want him to forget me either.”


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